Homeschool philosophy
It Matters Who Governs
Please consider:
My heart is forever grateful to our Nation's founding fathers and the wisdom they used. They weren't perfect men, but the Government they established was amazing and I believe only possible for them to understand because of the help they received from God.
Living in America has provided me with a lifetime of opportunity and I am also grateful for that. I am certain that if I had been born and remained in any other country, my life wouldn't be as great as it is here.
I want my children and their children to have the same kind of hopes, dreams and freedoms that my generation, and the generations before me have had.
I want my children to be mindful of the sacrifices and personal levels of responsibility others have maintained in order to establish and preserve this land.
It is our obligation to be active in leading and selecting leadership that honors the founding fathers and our heavenly Father.
If the righteous don't govern, than who does that leave? It doesn't leave anyone I want making decisions over the lives of my children.
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homeschoolersunderground
7/3/08
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Organization/time management
Get with God
My best year of homeschooling happened when I chose to go to a hotel overnight and just "get with God." I spent the time reading the Bible, talking to God, and giving everything to Him. Then I just listened with a notebook nearby and wrote down the thoughts I had.
I was way too busy the year before, and needed guidance on how/what activities to let go. I was able to make the weekly things I did outside of the home become every 10 days instead, which helped a lot. Then I was able to be led in all the courses I would do with each of my kids for the following year, as well as what they could be involved in (if they wanted to) that I could manage. I even made a chore list for each child...and some marriage-related resolutions on which I needed to focus.
All in all, it was a wonderful time with the Lord, a great time to give everything to Him. That year was generally more peaceful than any year I had, homeschooling-wise. I would encourage anyone to do the same -- Prov. 3:5-6.
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joyus
7/7/08
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Other
You Can Do It
I've heard too many people say that they feel inadequate to homeschool their children. I always tell them that that is a tool that Satan uses to discourage us from doing what we should be doing. Take heart and take it one day at a time (sometimes one minute at a time). It will all work out. There are so many resources available, plus advice from others. Take the time to find out about it. You are smarter than your children (for the time being) and you can do it!
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heathersuem
7/7/08
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Other
Dads Make Such a Difference!
I don't know how many dads out there visit websites like this, but I'm willing to bet it is not many. That being said, I just want to encourage the women who are so diligently teaching their kids to find ways to include dad, too.
I am very blessed to have my husband be the primary homeschool teacher of our boys. Their dad just brings a very different element to the classroom -- he's more attuned to their physical need to move around, and yet he can get them to focus on their studies in a manner more effective than me. He has his stories of how much he disliked school, but he didn't want the same experience for our boys. Men are so much more aware of the physical means of learning, like working on a science project, so I would encourage the exhausted moms who aren't already getting Dad involved to propose a physical project to work on with his child. He may balk, but then again, he may not see it as "teaching" and this may relieve some pressure. My husband loves it, and so do my boys.
Homeschool moms can always use a break -- but for those of you moms getting the dads involved -- my hat is off to you!
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karentinsley-kim
7/8/08
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Organization/time management
This Became a Problem for Me
I have been homeschooling for most of the past ten years except for two years when I put my kids in a charter school after moving. Now I must say that this year is probably my last for homeschooling providing things go the way they have been. I would like to share some mistakes I've made that made my homeschooling experience more difficult than it needed to be.
Debt - This is a biggie and I know better, but needless to say, I wanted to homeschool so I did what I had to do to get us by. I am married and my husband is a great worker --unfortunately neither of us is great at money management and we got in a little over our heads. We did not buy big expensive things but it was the smaller things (like homeschool books!) that became difficult. So, things like taxes, insurance, books, sometimes a bill or so, went on the credit card. Big no-no, but we were between a rock and a hard place. Couldn't stand the thought of any more public school felt like I was feeding my kids to wolves! Couldn't afford Christian school so there we were.
Busyness - due to the above situation. Had to look for outside jobs to do to try to avoid more debt. The bad thing was I was becoming too busy and taking my kids all different places while I would clean, or try to do school on the way, or later at night. That was very hard on them and me. Now I am in a position where I "have" to work but can not give adequate time to my precious jewels. But, they are in a great Christian school very close by.
I just wanted to share these thoughts. Maybe it will help someone else not to make the same mistake.
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ted2dee2
7/8/08
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Other
Driver's Education Option
We were considering paying a professional to train our children to drive (about $50 an hours -- YIKES!) when a simple call to our local high school resulted in the pleasant surprise of a free summer course to anyone living in our school district. This will not only teach our kids proper protocol and skills, but help lower our insurance rates as well. Check out your local school to see if you have similar benefits!
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jandusman
7/8/08
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Baby & infant
How to Raise a Neat Eater
I have learned with all six of my children that if you spoon feed your baby until about two years of age, they will become a neater eater.
From experience I have learned that if they are allowed to feed themselves they are messier even up until about age six. Spoon feeding teaches them by watching Mama or Daddy. This has always worked for me. No hands, Mom -- teach them to use the spoon -- less work in the long run.
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dinkydawn
7/9/08
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Bible & Spiritual growth
Did You Ever Think About This?
I used to take it for granted that my children listened at church, but to my surprise, they didn't. So I decided that after the service I would ask them questions to make sure they were learning about Jesus. It really helped -- they started paying more attention because they wanted to get the questions right.
So, just a reminder, don't assume they are listening. Make sure.
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dinkydawn
7/9/08
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Marriage & parenting
Homeschooling is a Gift
We homeschoolers have been given a tremendous gift to grow and learn together. Take time to remember how precious this time is and what a supreme gift we give and receive during this journey with our children.
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cindyhinds
7/10/08
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Marriage & parenting
It Takes Three
We live in a time when marriage is not as cherished as it should be. I believe it takes three to make it work -- Jesus, the husband, and the wife. Marriage is a wonderful gift from God and we all should take our marriages a little more seriously.
The Lord has blessed me with a wonderful husband but it was not always that way. We married young, at 16 and 17. We had to work hard at our marriage and we did. The Bible is the road to take. When we followed the Bible and its instruction on how to have a successful marriage, all our kinks seemed to work out. Now, 16 years and six children later, our love still burns strong.
So I advise anyone who wants a successful marriage to put God first and He will do the rest.
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dinkydawn
7/10/08
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Homeschool philosophy
We are All Born Ignorant...
... but one must work hard to remain stupid."
These are the words of the great philosopher and statesman, Ben Franklin. As homeschooling educators, it is our job, our calling and our privilege to work hard to remove ignorance and defeat stupidity in our little corners of the world.
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hope
7/14/08
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Other
This Site is Wonderful
I just wanted to give this site a shout-out. Last year I sold most of my books on eBay, having to pay a fee and then pay another fee for PayPal, etc.
I love this site. I listed my stuff and forgot about it. I don't have to check it everyday or anything else, and I have already sold half of my stuff. With times the way they are and money as tight as it is in my house at the present time, I am grateful that I didn't have to share my money with eBay, so I could sell for less and give someone else a great deal on books. Thanks for having such a great, informative site.
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jenclayton
7/14/08
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Computer
Free Computer Courses at Local Library
Check out your local library for free courses for your students on the computer. Not only will they pick up valuable computer knowledge skills, but will most likely come away with internet safety tips as well.
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jandusman
7/14/08
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Bible & Spiritual growth
Seek Ye First the Kingdom of God
Matthew 6:33 says "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you." I think this can apply to homeschooling as well as all of life. How often in my homeschool day have I been consumed with getting down math facts and making sure every "i" is dotted and every "t" crossed? I place this as "very important" on my list. I want my children to get the best education. I don't want them to lack in anything.
This week as I've been dealing with my own attitude (it all starts with us as parents), I realized that I need to seek God first in my life. I shouldn't be striving for ambitious kids who make me look good. I shouldn't be putting all my eggs in the education basket either. I should seek God. When I seek His face instead of my own agenda, I find that things really do fall into place. I could be facing chaotic times and feel like there are no obvious answers, but when I seek God and look to Him, peace comes. He calms the storms in life. And eventually I grow. And in those times, my kids grow too. They may not be little geniuses. Instead, they are spiritual geniuses.
My hope is that one day they will grasp the Word of Truth and hold on to it with all their hearts. If they have learned that, they have learned all I could ever hope for. Once you seek God, He will put all the pieces in place. Slowly, but surely, He is doing that in my own life.
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buckfam5
7/14/08
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College/vocation
Getting Ready
As this summer seems like it is just getting started, I am reminded that this will probably be the last summer like this for my oldest daughter. She has been so busy working at church camps getting scholarship money for college that she has hardly been at home at all. This week she reminds me of all the things she needs to purchase for her dorm room and that tugs at my heart strings a little more reminding me that she will soon be on her own, so to say.
Sure, she will be coming home on the weekends, but things won't be the same, but in the same moment, we are excited for her to begin her life. Helping her make decisions about the best student loans and so forth is scary for me, so I know that it is for her also. We know that it is a bittersweet time. So much is changing and changing quickly.
But I know that she is well prepared for it. I can't wait to see what the future holds for her. Pray for us as she moves into her dorm in a couple of weeks, and our lives begin another chapter in a beautiful story -- as our caterpillar spreads her butterfly wings and flies on her own.
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jenclayton
7/14/08
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Art & music
Special Needs Art Class
Working with special needs children, sometimes at different levels, can be challenging.
With this in mind I asked a local art supply store for the left over materials when they cut poster board. These came in many shapes, weights, textures, and colors. I placed a selection of these on a large table and allowed each child to choose one.
The children sat in a circle around the simple still life I had placed in the center. Fruits make a colorful still life. My more artistic students I gave watercolor pencils and my more challenged ones I gave watercolor crayons and pastels. I always give each child as much personal attention as their behavior allows. My less artistic children did best using the cloth boards and pastels.
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mamaanne
7/15/08
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Lang arts: phonics
Gummy O's Candy
This past year, I tried to use lots of different items for my three-year-old twins with our K3 curriculum. I found gummy O's -- tropical flavored candies as we were about to study the letter O. I thought this would be great.
God really showed me some great ways to use those that day. I cut out red octagons (stop signs) and put numbers on them for our math lesson. We played a game by covering the number I called out with a gummy O! It was a huge success (not to mention a great treat)!
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waldo
7/15/08
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Art & music
Peanut Butter Play Doh
If your little ones are not allergic to peanut butter, try mixing equal parts of peanut butter, honey and powered sugar to form play doh. It may take a little more sugar to get a good consistency, and they will probably smell the yummy play doh, but hopefully you can get some play time with it before they start eating their fun!
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waldo
7/15/08
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Other
A Godly Help Meet
My two older children were very focused on getting married. They would talk about whom they liked, and when they would start courting, be engaged, and marry thereafter.
It started to concern me because it seemed to be a carnal desire rather than a spiritual direction. I believe God gave me these thoughts as I addressed the subject with them:
Look at life as if you are writing two essay assignments.
One is about your courting/marriage future and the other is about your walk with God. As you live it, or are trying to reach for a goal in that area, the essay is being "written".
If you focus on the essay about your walk with God, your spiritual strength, and your relationship with Him, He will give you the answers to the other assignment. The ideas and the plans for your courting/marriage essay will all fall into place. Then both essays will be perfect "A" assignments.
If you try to focus on the courting assignment, you are prone to neglect the essay about your walk with God.
With the thought of marriage always at the forefront of their minds, how easy it would be to fall into a very unhappy relationship because we had it all figured out, through fleshly desire. Rather, let’s let God figure it out and then follow His direction.
I explained to them that it's not as much about attraction, rather: Can I make him/her happy? Can I be a good homekeeper/provider? Will I be able to be understanding of his/her needs and am I strong enough in my own spiritual walk that I would be able to help him/her pray through a time of spiritual battle?
This is a time for them to devote to the spiritual side of their lives in preparation for a Godly marriage. What a beautiful relationship it will be, being a true help meet -- a strength and an encouragement to each other.
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momma4ducks
7/17/08
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Organization/time management
Is This You?
Summer -- that word is almost sacred to me. I hear it and I feel like woo hoo! Freedom! No school! No planning! Freedom!
Then reality comes crashing in. With summer comes a myriad of activities, most of them outside. Yea! All of them require my supervision and time. Gardening, canning, caring for animals. It gets busy fast.
It is really easy to forget about school until it is almost fall again. Here is what we do. I start planning at the end of the school year what we will cover next year. I begin researching what I will need, what I have, and what I can borrow at the library. Then, over the summer I find these items, clean out my bookshelf and go through, give away or sell what we no longer use or won't use again.
If I do this a little at a time, but faithfully do it, when fall rolls around again, there is no panic about if the book is going to make it before school starts, or if I have gotten everything. If I take it in little bites then it isn't so overwhelming.
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redbarn
7/17/08
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Organization/time management
Books - to Keep or Not to Keep
I have a lot of books. I have too many books! What is a good homeschooling mom to do? I've been mulling this over for quite a while. Here is what I've come up with.
Evaluate: How long will it be before I will need this again? (There is seven years between the 3rd and 4th child here; that is a long time to save a common book)
Am I totally certain that the next child will use this? I have some books that I will assign to my children just because I think they are valuable. Other books we have just because they were a preference of that child.
Don't save common books. Even if they are 'good' books. For instance my two middle boys were VERY into boxcar children books. For a while I started collecting them. They took up a good deal of space on our shelves. But the boys don't read them any more (finally!). When my now four-year-old is ready, I'll have him read one. If he really wants them, we will just get them again. I've noticed that you can find this series everywhere so I decided to trade them out on PaperBackSwap.com. I gave some people a GREAT deal.
Collect hardback versions of favorites, even if I already have it. Then I'll get rid of the paperback. I have a thing for a good sturdy book. I love to find popular books in an older hardback version.
Save anything that I might read to my grandchildren. Yes I'm already planning on grandchildren. You never know what the future holds.
You know what? As practical as all that sounds it still HURTS to get rid of books. Can anyone else relate?
My husband said the nicest thing to me the other night. We were talking about moving. Which led to the thought of all the stuff we have. I quietly asked, "what will we do with my books?" And you know what he said? "We'll have to just box them up and ship them". I got right up and gave him a big hug.
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momn4boys
7/19/08
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Other
Homeschool Yearbook
My sister started something about seven years ago. It is such a good idea I had to share it with everyone.
We do a homeschool yearbook every year. It's like a scrapbook of sorts. We take pictures all through the school year. We do student pictures and teacher pictures, and a superlatives page. We get together with other homeschoolers and do a talent show. We also include science fair and church events throughout the year. This is a great way to have memories to look back on. We print it out on computer and put it in plastic sleeves. It runs about $20 a book depending on the number of pages.
I hope if you don't do this you will be inspired to start.
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dinkydawn
7/21/08
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Homeschool philosophy
Our Life in Homeschooling
I have been homeschooling for 12 years. I am entering my last year with my baby. My son is in his second year of college with a 4.0 GPA. I am very proud of him and my daughter. They both have done well and they both desire to homeschool their own children as life permits.
If you are just starting out, know that it is hard. It has been the hardest thing I have ever done. But, it has been the best thing I have ever done. The most rewarding thing I have ever done. If I could do it all over again, I would. Get up every day and ask for God's help and you can make it. He will give you the grace you need every day.
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angieinms
7/21/08
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Reference: general
Beginners/Starters
I just want to tell you to "hang in there." Life can be very hectic when your children are young and you are homeschooling, but the rewards of watching your young adults graduate and follow their dreams makes every moment of challenge a success.
The most important "subject" you can ever give your children is a love for learning, for it will stay with them forever and lead them on paths of which they have never dreamed. Watch for their 'bents' and allow them to develop those "bents." My son who loved making silly codes for communication is now programming computers!
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yahuliani
7/22/08
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Marriage & parenting
Taking Care of Yourself
My advice as a mother of five (four boys and one girl) to get the most out of your day, aside from your time with the Lord, is to take care of your physical health. As so much of your emotional and mental strength and stamina is closely tied to your physical health, I urge you to supplement wisely with quality nutrients and take time to excercise regularly. You will greatly decrease stress, and be more energetic and productive in all areas of life.
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sandiowen
7/22/08
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Bible & Spiritual growth
Romans 12:2
"Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect."
After three years of homeschooling I decided to throw in the towel. The keyword here is "I". Surely I couldn't provide the social stimulation my children needed or the activities, such as cheerleading, sports, home economics, band, etc. (never mind that they were only in grade school). High school was coming soon and I wasn't going to keep my kids from these "necessities" of life.
Imagine my surprise when my five-year-old came home with a colorful four letter word he learned at school. And he called our dog this word just as nonchalantly as if he were saying "good boy". I then realized that he didn't know he was saying anything wrong. My children hadn't learned any of this language from home and didn't know a bad word from a good word.
Then God started messing with me. He let me know where my children belonged -- at home where I can teach them His words and ways, not the ways of the world. They will have the rest of their lives to learn that and make decisions whether to follow them or not. But at least for now, I can teach them which decisons are the right and give them wisdom with which to make these choices.
God confirmed my decision to homeschool again. When I spoke with my children about it, I was afraid they would balk at the idea of homeschooling again. After all they had made new friends and gotten into the "routine" of school. But the comments I recieved were "yea!" , "good, I'd rather be homeschooled" and "I'm glad because my friends at school treat other girls mean." So much for my wisdom!
So don't rely on your own wisdom or the kind advice of others who think you've lost your mind. Follow what God puts in your heart-let His will be done and be "pleasing and perfect" in His sight.
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diain
7/22/08
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Baking & cooking
Kid's in the Kitchen?
Flour everywhere! Dirty bowls, measuring cups, and spoons covering the table. Kids with sticky hands leaving messy handprints on everything they touch.
If this thought makes you cringe, then look at it through new eyes. Kids learning how to measure, kids learning science through combining simple substances and the outcome becoming something completely new. Kids learning how important their job is in the family unit. Kids learning how to spend quality time with their future children.
Can't you smell those cookies baking?
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diain
7/22/08
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Special needs
Who is Teaching Whom?
In teaching two children with very real, and very different, special needs, I often find myself a bit out of sorts, or wits, or something like that. At these times, I do a subconscious thing where I thow up my hands...kind of a helpless "I give up" sort of stance.
Then, out of nowhere, just like a rainbow at the end of a storm ( and can we have storms!), one of these 100% hands-on, unpredictable and difficult (to say the least) special children comes up and says the most profound amazing thing I have ever heard.
I have read a LOT, and heard a lot...but somehow, in these precious little moments of profound wisdom, I see God smiling...I don't feel so much like a frustrated teacher or mommy. I just feel a little closer to eternity. And I ask myself, who is teaching whom here?
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rebekahmmata
7/22/08
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Baby & infant
A Baby Who Won't Sleep
I have been blessed with six children. All of whom always slept through the night until now. My sixth child never wants to go to bed until 1:30 am. This is really taking a toll on me physically. I am not a spring chicken. At 33 I can really tell the difference in having a baby this late in life and when I had my first child at 19. I have tried everything. If anyone has any pointers please let me know. I welcome the advice.
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dinkydawn
7/23/08
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Organization/time management
Don't Re-use USPS Priority Boxes for Media Mail
I found out today from my mail carrier that the USPS does not allow re-using (i.e. turning inside out and retaping) Priority mail boxes. Since they give out these boxes free, they intend them to be used ONLY for Priority mail (you can re-use them for Priority mail, of course).
The reason I found this out is that I bought some books from a friend I met on this board. When the carrier delivered the books to me, she said I owed $13 extra postage for Priority. I was shocked since it was media mail, and wasn't marked priority. She thought it was strange so she took it back to the PO to find out what happened.
The box happened to be the same size as a USPS Priority box (but it had been turned inside out and re-taped). The clerk at the PO thought it was a USPS Priority box, so she was going to charge me an extra fee for Priority service. They opened the box and thankfully it was not (it was a Fed Ex box...the USPS apparently has no problem with re-using these turned inside out and retaped).
I know I recycle boxes all the time this way. I never knew it was a problem. Just to warn you that the PO is cracking down on this and you or your buyer could incur extra charges.
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smiths4him
7/23/08
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Homeschool philosophy
My Baby Grew Up!
This summer, our eldest "graduated" from home high school. The funny thing is, it doesn't feel like it. We've taught her at home all her life and have celebrated big moments with her, like her first step, her first word, learning to ride a bike, her first chapter book, her first recital, her driver's license - just to name a few.
Hopefully we've instilled a love of learning in her, so she'll want to continue to grow in stature and knowledge. So moving from high school to college seems a rather artificial celebration. Now I'm waiting to help her furnish her first home away from our family home. That will warrant a celebration. And a few tears.
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pammylbear
7/23/08
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Ministry & missions
Book Samaritan
If you are in a tight situation financially, you should check out Book Samaritan (do a search online). This organization will get you materials for free. All they ask is that you either send it back when you are done or pass it along for free to another homeschooling family.
I have not checked them out but it seems legit and would encourage anyone to take a look. Be sure and check them out before sending money. But it sure can't hurt to ask for materials!
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momn4boys
7/24/08
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Marriage & parenting
How to Make Your Husband Smile
Skooch over and sit in the middle on the bench seat in your truck using the middle seat belt.
Even if it means that you have to twist your legs around so you won't be in the way of the stick shift. Especially when there are no kids or carseats with you, so there really is no reason you have to skooch over. Even when you are just going to Home Depot and not on a special date or anything.
All of these actions will speak love to the important man in your life.
(Note: This message has been endorsed by the editor, who now wishes he still had a truck with a bench seat.)
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momn4boys
7/24/08
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Lang arts: spelling/vocab
A fun Idea to Improve Vocabulary Skills
My kids read a lot, as do many homeschooled kids. Because they read far beyond their grade levels they often run across words they don't know. Often they end up just guessing at the meaning of these words based on context and have no idea how to properly pronounce them.
To remedy this, I purchased a small notebook for each of them. I instructed them to write down any new words they come upon while reading and then look them up. I then award prizes for completed definitions. One prize for 25 words, another for 50, another for 100, and a new book for 200 words. After 200 my kids start over. They love the rewards and I love knowing that they are increasing their vocabularies and improving dictionary skills.
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kjlncwhite
7/24/08
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Marriage & parenting
Never Refuse...
One thing I've learned is to never refuse hugs, smooches, or snuggles from my children. Enjoy your blessings while they are with you. Childhood flies by, and the dishes (or whatever is pulling at you) can wait!
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jcypher
7/25/08
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Math: fundamentals
Math Contests Make Math Fun
A nine-year-old girl has made a math contest website:
Math contests make math fun. If you want to encourage your children in math, you can check out my new website that lists more than 140 motivating math contests. In a chart format, contests for individuals are listed with prizes, deadlines and descriptions. Regional meets, which are listed by state, are often open to individuals as well as teams. My website includes curriculum reviews and helpful articles that
show you how to integrate math contests into your homeschooling. You can find my website at http://homeschoolmathcontests.com/default.aspx
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luke15:10
7/25/08
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Other
Rain Gutter Book Shelves
This is not a new idea but it's an easy way to display your picture books so you can see the covers.
Buy a length of plastic rain gutter from a home improvement store (including the end caps) and cut it to any length you like. It can be installed easily with screws, and only took us about an hour from start to finish. Looks great if you have several "shelves" on a large wall. We installed these beside my son's bed and we can change out books from our large collection. Looks great and the books actually get read!
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shawne
7/25/08
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Other
A Smile Goes a Long Way
Our pool store will test our water sample that we bring in for free and make any needed recommendations to bring the chemicals up to well...perfect. If you get a perfect pool test, you get this little smiley face at the upper right hand corner of your test results. We have had our pool for I guess eight summers. Do you realize all that needs to be in balance to get a perfect test?
Dragging my feet, shoulders slumped, I took my weekly sample in, and anticipated the technician's question: "how does it look?" "Fine, I guess," I answered in a groan. The tech asks, "have you drained your pool recently?" "Well," he said, "your stabilizer has come down considerably. You have a perfect pool."
I scared the kid! Jumping up and down, hugging him, running from the store yelling, telling everybody my news.
I though of all the applications that has for life!
*All the hard work, finally realized, for a smiley face.
*Encouragement goes a long way. That smiley face boosted my self esteem. It turned my frown - upside down.
If I can get so excited about a "perfect" pool, that is small compared to all that God has done that I can be jumping up and down sharing with anyone who will listen.
At the end of my life, I want God to put a smiley face on the upper right hand corner of my life test and say, "Well done, good and faithful servant!"
Teachers/parents, give your student/child smiley faces often! The greatest motivator for my younger kids was a sticker -- they would work very hard for it. Now that they are older, it is money, but a hug, time with us, and "well done" puts a smile on their face too.
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hypermusicmom
7/26/08
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Handwriting
Handwriting With A Purpose
Over the years I have collected dozens and dozens of favorite sayings, Bible verses, poems, and comments... all of which sit in a file never to be looked at unless I add a new one to it. Well, I finally came up with a great way to put them to good use and have them available in a more useful manner.
I had my son recopy them on decorative paper as handwriting practice! Then I had my local copy center bind them into a book that I can display on our bookshelf. My son got much needed handwriting practice, I now look at my favorite sayings more, and I have a wonderful keepsake from my son.
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llm01
7/26/08
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Homeschool philosophy
Relaxing While Homeschooling a Pre-Schooler
A friend recently wrote me asking for advice on how to "homeschool" her four-year-old daughter. Here is what I shared with her.
The best thing to do at this age is read to them. This will develop their speech and vocabulary. That is, of course, if you read stories that have good vocabulary - like the original Beatrix Potter books. They have adorable illustrations and are rich in vocabulary.
When reading, I would recommend that you stop to discuss whenever she leads you to, or when you feel you need to explain something. This will usually be a word that she does not know. Be sure you start using it in your day to day talking with her - she will too.
Acting out stories is a great way for them to connect with the story and learn how to put themselves in others' shoes. They learn to think of how others may feel in a given situation.
I also like to find books with beautiful illustrations - this is a great introduction to art. Talk about the picture, what time of day does it appear to be, etc. Then, draw with her.
As far as math, the basics of counting are all you need right now. Practice counting with her over and over. Then try going backward - start easy, like from 3 or 5. Remember, the actual numerals (0-9) are random shapes that are used to represent a concrete concept. Having her learn the numbers is fine, but more importantly have her help you with real-life math. I have a box that I've labeled "Hands On Math" where I keep manipulatives as well as easy math games and activities. Remember, kids this age learn by playing.
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anicorey
7/27/08
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Organization/time management
Importance of Creating a Schedule
I would encourage every homeschool mom to check out titus2.com. They have excellent scheduling tools. I cannot tell you the importance of creating a schedule -- this one change in my home has created harmony and peace. We get more done than ever before and there is no more hectic running around trying to get it all done! I would also recommend "Managers of Their Homes" and "Managers of Their Chores."
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joyful_homeschool_mom
7/28/08
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Homeschool philosophy
Laminating Your Life Away
I recently purchased an inexpensive thermal laminator at my local warehouse store. After seeing the results of a friend's years ago, I have thought it would be a good purchase, but the price was always more than I was willing to pay. At $20, this has been one of the more useful, and relatively inexpensive, items I've acquired for our home school. And I've acquired quite a few things! (Think bookcases, paper, books, binders, copier, craft supplies, etc.)
The machine has gotten a workout since being taken out of it's box. I made luggage tags for my daughter's missions trip. I've made cards for games more durable by encasing them in plastic - and no bubbles, like with the self-adhesive laminating sheets. I've laminated math reference sheets so (hopefully) it's harder for my kids to misplace them. I've plasticized the papers for my game of Jeopardy! for our co-op biology class. I wish I had had it when I taught a Latin roots class, when I taught previous science classes, when I sewed luggage tags, and any number of other occasions.
All told, I would recommend one of these little beauties. Maybe if you can't afford one for yourself, your homeschool co-op could buy one and charge per laminating sheet. The sheets themselves can be pricey ($0.50 to $1 each - ouch!), but for me, it's been well worth it.
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pammylbear
7/30/08
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Organization/time management
How I Organized My Homeschool Library
I finally organized my 1,330 books in a way that lets the family find them easily and put them away properly. I was sick of the kids getting interested in a topic and having to tell them, "I know we have a book about that, but where?"
1. I obtained all the shelving I could.
2. I decided on categories. I wanted them specific enough to find books when needed, yet broad enough that there wouldn't be only a few per category. Examples: Board Books, Language and Sign Language, History and Geography, Sonlight 1, Homeschooling Theory/Practice.
Some books fit more than one category, so I pick where I need them most. Books used with our curriculum might be history-related and chapter books, but I label them Sonlight 1 because I need them with the curriculum.
3. I cataloged my books by registering for a free Amazon.com "Your Media Library" account and entering ISBN numbers. It has a spot to note the location of the book; this is where I enter my self-named category.
4. I obtained colored dot, star and other stickers. The cheap brands actually stick better; just make sure they're labeled permanent or test one.
I color code my books, but you could use a certain number of strips or dots to indicate each category instead.
5. I applied the stickers to the books' spines. I put the bottom of each sticker one inch from the bottom so they would be neat when all in a row on the shelves.
6. I tried to assign one or two shelves per category of book, then put the books on the correct shelf.
7. I printed the list of categories and stuck an actual sticker from that category on the paper next to the appropriate name as a key.
8. I will also label shelves so my family can find books at a glace without having to check the key each time.
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suebattel
7/30/08
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Homeschool philosophy
Don't Dumb It Down for Me.
The other day my brother-in-law mentioned a story in the news about a green puppy. My daughter asked how it became green, and he said it was born that way. A few minutes later he told the same story to my sister and she asked the same question. This time he explained in detail the theory that the placenta's greenish color rubbed off on the puppy's coat in the womb. Our daughter (age five) asked, "Why didn't you just tell me that?"
Kids are short, and we assume they can't understand. In the name of making information age-appropriate, we go too far and dumb it down. I'd say the entire philosophy that we share for educating our children is based on the idea that they can understand. Maybe they don't catch every detail, but we expose them to all the facts.
People are often surprised at the things that come out of our daughter's mouth — that she knows moths are nocturnal while butterflies are diurnal, and so on. While we think she is bright, other kids are just as intelligent. The difference is that we bother to give her real information.
This morning she was still thinking about the story of Daniel in the lion's den, which I read to her from "Egermeier's Bible Story Book" last week (great book!). She wanted to know why when she has heard the story before in other books or at Sunday School, they simply say that the men were jealous of Daniel, when really there's a lot more to the story.
We had a good chance to discuss this idea of dumbing things down for kids. It really bothers her. While she hasn't verbalized it this way, it seems as if she feels she is being cheated out of information just because she is a kid.
Our daughter told me, "Someday when I grow up, if I am a teacher, I'll tell my kids the whole, whole, whole story!"
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suebattel
7/30/08
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Homeschool philosophy
Patience of Job? I Don't Think So.
Apparently my mother-in-law thinks I have the patience of Job. (To those who know me well: Please stop laughing. Now.) Twice this has come up when we have discussed homeschooling. Fact is, I have the patience of any other harried mother of a spirited child and active toddler who has managed to overbook herself with far too many activities. (Low to nil, in chase you need the translation.)
The topic of patience came up at the grocery store this afternoon, too. A mother with two carts full of little boys (!) commended me on my decision to homeschool. I could never do it, she told me. I don't have the patience. I wonder if she believed me when I told her that I don't either.
I wish I could sit down and explain this to every single parent who has seriously contemplated homeschooling, but thinks they couldn't hack it. I work hard at displaying what looks like patience. In my life B.K. (before kids), I had a full-time career in public relations. I liked the writing, forming the messages, working with reporters on deadline, touting my organization. But the schmoozing with executives, budget reports, and a whole host of other stuff was not so fun for me. I really had to work at it. It was work, right?
That's what mothering and homeschooling are for me now. They're my work, so I work at them.
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suebattel
7/30/08
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Marriage & parenting
A Home Full of Jerks
Our home is full of jerks - Praise God!
We have been reading as a family the book Practical Happiness: A Young Man's Guide to a Contented Life by Bob Schultz as part of our family devotion time. At the end of yesterday's reading I read just the title of today's reading, which was "Jerks". We all smiled and chuckled and wondered what that would be about.
Well, we were in for a treat. The author writes "After decades of watching families, I've discovered a trait that appears in every successful home. I'm convinced that no matter how great the family, without this particular element, they will have a serious fall. The common thread running through successful families is this: there's a jerk in every one of them. Not only is there a jerk in every family, in the top notch families every member is a jerk!
After peels of laughter from all of us, we read on...
"The wonder of Christianity, the good news of the gospel, is that a bunch of jerks can learn to love each other. They can stick up for one another, forgive each other, and cover for the other's mistakes. A pack of jerks, under the influence of God's Spirit, lives in harmony and accomplishes many useful and good works together." page 28.
"Loving jerks is basic Christianity. It's God's heart. A family who loves sinners, especially those in their own home, experience joy in the middle of problems. They know the security that comes with acceptance in the midst of failure." page 29
How encouraging to know we have a faithful God who loves us and hears our prayers for our marriages and children. May the Lord bless this family of jerks as we learn to love each other.
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audreym
7/30/08
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Organization/time management
Get Rid of That Yucky Job!
Often I tend to put off the yucky jobs - you know the ones I mean: The leftovers in the fridge, the scum on the shower walls, the phone call to the difficult relative.
Instead of putting off the unavoidable and disagreeable tasks that we need to do, why not try getting rid of the yucky job?
Here's how. Alexander MacLaren advises "No unwelcome tasks become any the less unwelcome by putting them off till tomorrow. It is only when they are behind us and done, that we begin to find that there is a sweetness to be tasted afterwards, and that the remembrance of unwelcome duties unhesitatingly done is welcome and pleasant. Accomplished, they are full of blessing, and there is a smile on their faces as they leave us. Undone, they stand threatening and disturbing our tranquility, and hindering our communion with God.
"If there be lying before you any bit of work from which you shrink, go straight up to it, and do it at once. the only way to get rid of it is to do it." (quoted in Shopping for Time by Carolyn Mahaney and others, page 84.)
There you have it. Get rid of that yucky job by doing it heartily, right away!
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audreym
7/30/08
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College/vocation
High School Homeschooling Jumpstarts College
I'd like to encourage all homeschool parents to be informed about their local colleges' online classes and test services. It is a blessing having your teenager doing college work at home with hymns playing in the background instead of being exposed to the campus environment.
High School academics can easily be completed in three years, including classes taken online with college credits, especially during the third year and summers, if desired (dual credits H.S. & College). By the time your child might have finished public high school in four years, he/she could have an associate's degree. During freshman year, be sure to have him/her take a course on the Constitution and study for the ACT and SAT tests. Constitution test, ACT and SAT tests can be arranged by your local college testing centers. A great jumpstart! We did it! Good luck!
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sls
7/31/08
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Marriage & parenting
Time for Hubby
After a long day of homeschooling, let's face it. We are tired, probably cranky, and we relish that time that the children are in bed and we finally have time to ourselves. There's the book we have been wanting to catch up on, that dress you been wanting to finish sewing, or that TV show you have been wanting to watch.
But wait! Are we forgetting about someone? What about our husband? It is so important that make time for our husband. Maybe bring him a cup of coffee or tea. Find out how his day went. You can have a little mini date with him. Have a nutritious (or fun snack) night-time snack by candlelight. The possiblilities are endless.
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prv31wife
7/31/08
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